Choosing Change #14: Living, Loving and Leaving A Legacy

Thank you for reading… The Introductory post about Choosing Change, Choosing Change #1: Safe People, Safe Places, and Safe Processes Choosing Change #2: So what’s my reasonable contribution to your change process? (Part 1 of 2)  Choosing Change #3: So what’s my reasonable contribution to your change process? (Part 2 of 2) Choosing Change #4: Gardening with … More Choosing Change #14: Living, Loving and Leaving A Legacy

When Secrets Surface: An Integrative Primer to Cope with Unfaithfulness

(This post is an excerpt from Choosing Change #14: Living, Loving and Leaving a Legacy, which is a chapter in the book “Cultivating Love: Choosing Change” by Dr. Ken McGill When you think of your bedroom and all that is shared, enjoyed, celebrated, protected and honored between you and your partner, one of the most difficult ordeals … More When Secrets Surface: An Integrative Primer to Cope with Unfaithfulness

Choosing Change: Your 68° – 72° Degree Target Chart (Theological)

Printer-Friendly PDF – Your 68 to 72 Degree Target Chart (Theological – Handout – Dr Ken McGill, 2020) (This post is an excerpt from Choosing Change #14: Living, Loving and Leaving a Legacy, which is a chapter in the book “Cultivating Love: Choosing Change” by Dr. Ken McGill In counseling sessions I’m prone to bring up … More Choosing Change: Your 68° – 72° Degree Target Chart (Theological)

Choosing Change: Your 68° – 72° Degree Target Chart (Psychological)

Printer-Friendly PDF – Your 68 to 72 Degree Target Chart (Handout) (This post is an excerpt from Choosing Change #14: Living, Loving and Leaving a Legacy, which is a chapter in the book “Cultivating Love: Choosing Change” by Dr. Ken McGill In counseling sessions, I’m prone to bring up the “68° – 72° degree range” which … More Choosing Change: Your 68° – 72° Degree Target Chart (Psychological)

Choosing Change: Understanding and Empathizing with Survivors of Betrayal Trauma

(This post is an excerpt from Choosing Change #14: Living, Loving and Leaving a Legacy, which is a chapter in the book “Cultivating Love: Choosing Change” by Dr. Ken McGill This post on the subject of Betrayal Trauma, Complex Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD), Sex Addicted Induced Trauma and Emotional Flashbacks was inspired by reading literature on … More Choosing Change: Understanding and Empathizing with Survivors of Betrayal Trauma

Choosing Change: Intimacy Building Behaviors

(This post is an excerpt from Choosing Change #14: Living, Loving and Leaving a Legacy, which is a chapter in the book “Cultivating Love: Choosing Change” by Dr. Ken McGill Download this list: Choosing Change – Intimacy Building Behaviors (McGill, 2020) Every marriage or relationship will be as strong as the daily work that is poured … More Choosing Change: Intimacy Building Behaviors

Choosing Change #13: Building Character and Building People (Part 3 of 3)

Thank you for reading… The Introductory post about Choosing Change, Choosing Change #1: Safe People, Safe Places, and Safe Processes Choosing Change #2: So what’s my reasonable contribution to your change process? (Part 1 of 2)  Choosing Change #3: So what’s my reasonable contribution to your change process? (Part 2 of 2) Choosing Change #4: Gardening with … More Choosing Change #13: Building Character and Building People (Part 3 of 3)