Tag: life

Reparenting and Loving Yourself (1.5) with the Shema, Blessing and 8 C’s of IFS principles

June 8, 2025

One of the gifts that comes with recalibrating your wisdom means you get to take the power back and choose how you wish to use your life energy to cultivate love, wisdom and healthy adult mode behavior in your life; this is truly empowering!  No longer do you have to live by the “tyranny of the … More Reparenting and Loving Yourself (1.5) with the Shema, Blessing and 8 C’s of IFS principles

Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 5: Growth, Stability and Teamwork)

May 22, 2025

This list of 100 Attachment and Attunement Needs is inspired by Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Your goal with this Wisdom Tool is to identify then practice these behaviors to build “Earned Secure Attachments” and Attunement with each other (or your “neighbors”), as these behaviors yield powerful relationship and healing outcomes.   Remember, Earned Secure Attachment refers to … More Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 5: Growth, Stability and Teamwork)

Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 4: Communication and Emotional Support)

May 21, 2025

This list of 100 Attachment and Attunement Needs is inspired by Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Your goal with this Wisdom Tool is to identify then practice these behaviors to build “Earned Secure Attachments” and Attunement with each other (or your “neighbors”), as these behaviors yield powerful relationship and healing outcomes.   Remember, Earned Secure Attachment refers to … More Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 4: Communication and Emotional Support)

Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 3: Physical Affection and Closeness)

May 21, 2025

This list of 100 Attachment and Attunement Needs is inspired by Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Your goal with this Wisdom Tool is to identify then practice these behaviors to build “Earned Secure Attachments” and Attunement with each other (or your “neighbors”), as these behaviors yield powerful relationship and healing outcomes.   Remember, Earned Secure Attachment refers to … More Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 3: Physical Affection and Closeness)

Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 2: Affirmation, Appreciation and Trust)

May 21, 2025

This list of 100 Attachment and Attunement Needs is inspired by Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Your goal with this Wisdom Tool is to identify then practice these behaviors to build “Earned Secure Attachments” and Attunement with each other (or your “neighbors”), as these behaviors yield powerful relationship and healing outcomes.   Remember, Earned Secure Attachment refers to … More Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 2: Affirmation, Appreciation and Trust)

31 Flavors of Wisdom – Flavor #31: Self-Control

April 23, 2025

Flavor 31 – Self-Control (Enkrateia) (Complete list and links to the 31 Flavors of Wisdom) Meaning, Essence, and Significance: Self-Control (or Enkrateia in Greek), the last of the nine Fruit of the Spirit, is the end result of a very fruitful process of growth.  Just like the previous eight fruits of the Spirit, Self-Control is deeply rooted in … More 31 Flavors of Wisdom – Flavor #31: Self-Control

31 Flavors of Wisdom – Flavor #30: Peace

April 23, 2025

Flavor #30: Peace (Shalom; Eirene) (Complete list and links to the 31 Flavors of Wisdom) Meaning, Essence, and Significance: Peace encompasses more than the absence of conflict. The Hebrew word Shalom points to completeness, wholeness, well-being, and prosperity; a state where all aspects of life are in harmony. Similarly, the Greek term Eirene conveys tranquility and restfulness. Together, these terms illustrate that true peace … More 31 Flavors of Wisdom – Flavor #30: Peace

31 Flavors of Wisdom – Flavor #29: Gentleness/Emotional Regulation

April 23, 2025

Flavor #29: Gentleness/Emotional Regulation (Prautes) (Complete list and links to the 31 Flavors of Wisdom) Meaning, Essence, and Significance: The Greek term Prautes, often translated as “gentleness,” embodies strength under control.  According to Aristotle, Prautes represents the mean between excessive anger and a complete lack of it, signifying the ability to express anger appropriately, at the right time, in the … More 31 Flavors of Wisdom – Flavor #29: Gentleness/Emotional Regulation

31 Flavors of Wisdom – Flavor #28: Skilled Outcomes

April 22, 2025

Flavor #28: Skilled Outcomes (Epiginosko; Prasso; Brabeion/Stephanos) (Complete list and links to the 31 Flavors of Wisdom) 1. Meaning, Essence, and Significance: Skilled Outcomes, especially in love and relational restoration, are grounded in the Greek term Epiginosko: a deep, experiential understanding born from observation, reflection, and intentional action. It moves beyond mere awareness to a comprehensive knowledge (#3) … More 31 Flavors of Wisdom – Flavor #28: Skilled Outcomes

31 Flavors of Wisdom – Flavor #27: Skilled Behavior

April 21, 2025

Flavor #27: Skilled Behavior (Ra’ah; Horao; Samar; Oikodomeo; Kun; Scholazo) (Complete list and links to the 31 Flavors of Wisdom) Meaning, Essence, and Significance: Skilled behavior is reflected in your ability to “paint into your reality” attentiveness, perception (#10), deep understanding (#20) and practical action (#25), which are necessary qualities to fulfill your responsibilities with wisdom, skill and … More 31 Flavors of Wisdom – Flavor #27: Skilled Behavior