Tag: relationships

Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life is now available!

November 20, 2025

It’s with great joy that I’m able to announce the ninth and final book in the Cultivating Love series, Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life is available for purchase!  Click here to order the Kindle version, the Paperback version, the Audiobook, and my Youtube channel for podcasts about “What’s in the box.” “What’s in the box…“ Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life takes a deep dive into the subject … More Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life is now available!

13 Suggestions and Strategies to “I-N-S-P-I-R-E M-Y-S-E-L-F”

June 17, 2025

What follows are 13 wise and “quick reference” suggestions and strategies to strengthen your Self, and regain trust, balance, harmony and empowerment with your Internal Family System parts. These strategies are best used in conjunction with content in these two posts about Reparenting your Self: 1. Reparenting and Loving Yourself (1.5) with the Shema, Blessing and … More 13 Suggestions and Strategies to “I-N-S-P-I-R-E M-Y-S-E-L-F”

Wisdom Tool: McGill’s 48 additional strategies to get the most from the 8 C’s of Internal Family Systems (2.0 – Loving Others version)

June 12, 2025

This Wisdom Tool is designed to be used with information in these posts: Use these 48 strategies in conjunction with the “Reparenting and Loving Others (2.0) with the Shema, Blessing and 8 C’s of IFS principles” (#1 above), and the “Wisdom Tool: 48 strategies (#2 above) to enhance your ability to Reparent yourself via Recalibrated Wisdom. These … More Wisdom Tool: McGill’s 48 additional strategies to get the most from the 8 C’s of Internal Family Systems (2.0 – Loving Others version)

Wisdom Tool: 48 strategies to get the most from the 8 C’s of Internal Family Systems (2.0 – Loving Others version)

June 12, 2025

This Wisdom Tool is designed to be used with information in these posts: Use these 48 strategies in conjunction with the “Reparenting and Loving Yourself (2.0) with the Shema, Blessing and 8 C’s of IFS principles” (#1 above), and the “Wisdom Tool: McGill’s 48 additional strategies (#2 above) to enhance your ability to Reparent yourself via Recalibrated … More Wisdom Tool: 48 strategies to get the most from the 8 C’s of Internal Family Systems (2.0 – Loving Others version)

Reparenting and Loving Others (2.0) with the Shema, Blessing and 8 C’s of IFS principles

June 12, 2025

This is the second 3-part set of posts to follow the first 3-part set entitled:  Please visit post #1 above (“Reparenting and Loving Yourself, 1.5”) for introductory comments regarding the need and benefit of reparenting yourself, which is the platform from which this second 3-part set about Reparenting and Loving Others (2.0) emerges.g yourself, which is … More Reparenting and Loving Others (2.0) with the Shema, Blessing and 8 C’s of IFS principles

Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 5: Growth, Stability and Teamwork)

May 22, 2025

This list of 100 Attachment and Attunement Needs is inspired by Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Your goal with this Wisdom Tool is to identify then practice these behaviors to build “Earned Secure Attachments” and Attunement with each other (or your “neighbors”), as these behaviors yield powerful relationship and healing outcomes.   Remember, Earned Secure Attachment refers to … More Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 5: Growth, Stability and Teamwork)

Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 4: Communication and Emotional Support)

May 21, 2025

This list of 100 Attachment and Attunement Needs is inspired by Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Your goal with this Wisdom Tool is to identify then practice these behaviors to build “Earned Secure Attachments” and Attunement with each other (or your “neighbors”), as these behaviors yield powerful relationship and healing outcomes.   Remember, Earned Secure Attachment refers to … More Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 4: Communication and Emotional Support)

Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 3: Physical Affection and Closeness)

May 21, 2025

This list of 100 Attachment and Attunement Needs is inspired by Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Your goal with this Wisdom Tool is to identify then practice these behaviors to build “Earned Secure Attachments” and Attunement with each other (or your “neighbors”), as these behaviors yield powerful relationship and healing outcomes.   Remember, Earned Secure Attachment refers to … More Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 3: Physical Affection and Closeness)

Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 2: Affirmation, Appreciation and Trust)

May 21, 2025

This list of 100 Attachment and Attunement Needs is inspired by Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Your goal with this Wisdom Tool is to identify then practice these behaviors to build “Earned Secure Attachments” and Attunement with each other (or your “neighbors”), as these behaviors yield powerful relationship and healing outcomes.   Remember, Earned Secure Attachment refers to … More Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 2: Affirmation, Appreciation and Trust)

Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 1: Emotional Safety and Presence)

May 21, 2025

This list of 100 Attachment and Attunement Needs is inspired by Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Your goal with this Wisdom Tool is to identify then practice these behaviors to build “Earned Secure Attachments” and Attunement with each other (or your “neighbors”), as these behaviors yield powerful relationship and healing outcomes.   Remember, Earned Secure Attachment refers to … More Wisdom Tool: 100 Attachment and Attunement Solutions (Part 1: Emotional Safety and Presence)