Goal: To become aware of and competent with a process of growing constructive thoughts and behaviors consistently. There are two insights I’d like to convey to you about growing wisdom (there are actually more, but I’ll condense it to two!). First, growing wisdom is much like the gardening experiences you may have had in your … More Growing Wisdom

Goal: To understand the value and components of making good, practical and wise decisions Proverbs 3:13-18: “Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding, for she is more profitable than silver and yields better returns than gold. She is more precious than rubies; nothing you desire can compare with her. Long life is … More The Value and Ingredients of Wisdom

This post includes the Table of Contents in Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life!   In this post, you’ll be able to access all of the material in the book Wisdom for Life (as it is written then “published” on my blog), via the hyperlinks attached to each of the Table of Content titles below. As mentioned in a previous post, you … More The Table of Contents in Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life by Dr. Ken McGill

In keeping with the spirit of composing the 365 brief “entries” in this book, let me get right to the point regarding how to use Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life! The suggestions aren’t exhaustive, so I encourage you to use your creativity, think outside the box with the suggestions and above all, put your fingerprints … More How to use Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life

“Blessed is the man who finds wisdom, the man who gains understanding, for she is more profitable than silver, and yields better returns than gold” – Proverbs 3: 13 – 14 (TNIV) Thanks for visiting my blog and this post, which is the beginning of the ninth book in the Cultivating Love series, called Cultivating … More Introduction to Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life by Dr. Ken McGill

Cultivating Love: Choosing Change is available for purchase at Amazon! It’s with great joy that I’m able to announce the eighth and final book in the Cultivating Love series, Cultivating Love: Choosing Change is available for purchase in the Amazon bookstore!  Click here to order the Kindle or Paperback version. What’s in the book… Cultivating … More Cultivating Love: Choosing Change is available at Amazon!

(This post is an excerpt from Choosing Change #14: Living, Loving and Leaving a Legacy, which is a chapter in the book “Cultivating Love: Choosing Change” by Dr. Ken McGill “Choice – Purpose is a choice and the answer to the question WHY?; We are who we CHOOSE to be, so we should be very clear … More Choosing Change: Leaving a Legacy

Thank you for reading… The Introductory post about Choosing Change, Choosing Change #1: Safe People, Safe Places, and Safe Processes Choosing Change #2: So what’s my reasonable contribution to your change process? (Part 1 of 2)  Choosing Change #3: So what’s my reasonable contribution to your change process? (Part 2 of 2) Choosing Change #4: Gardening with … More Choosing Change #14: Living, Loving and Leaving A Legacy

(This post is an excerpt from Choosing Change #14: Living, Loving and Leaving a Legacy, which is a chapter in the book “Cultivating Love: Choosing Change” by Dr. Ken McGill When you think of your bedroom and all that is shared, enjoyed, celebrated, protected and honored between you and your partner, one of the most difficult ordeals … More When Secrets Surface: An Integrative Primer to Cope with Unfaithfulness

Printer-Friendly PDF – Your 68 to 72 Degree Target Chart (Theological – Handout – Dr Ken McGill, 2020) (This post is an excerpt from Choosing Change #14: Living, Loving and Leaving a Legacy, which is a chapter in the book “Cultivating Love: Choosing Change” by Dr. Ken McGill In counseling sessions I’m prone to bring up … More Choosing Change: Your 68° – 72° Degree Target Chart (Theological)