Flavor #1: Wisdom (Hakam, Hokma, Sekel, Sophia)

(Complete list and links to the 31 Flavors of Wisdom)

Meaning, Essence and Significance: Wisdom transcends the mere gaining of knowledge; it embodies skillful living that demonstrates you know what to do when the situation you’re in requires the right response. In Hebrew, Hokma refers to both practical skills and intellectual insight, emphasizing a life aligned with wise, positive and ethical principles that flow from your spiritual connection with your Higher Power. Sekel adds dimensions of emotional intelligence and discernment into your knowledge base.  In the New Testament, Sophia represents wisdom that flows from God, that demonstrates spiritual maturity and deep understanding. Collectively, these terms depict wisdom as a harmonious blend of spiritual insight, awareness of what morals you’ll apply to obtain effective outcome(s) at any given time,  and behavior cultivated through reflection, practice and your desire to become the best version of yourself.

Practical Appearance and Nutritional Value: Wisdom manifests as calmness amid chaos and clarity during conflict. It resembles the friend who offers timely counsel, the leader who plans with discernment, and the parent who balances speaking and listening. Wisdom is characterized by being slow to speak, quick to listen, and grounded in spiritual awareness. Its benefits include growing integrity, nurturing intentionality in relationships, and understanding what’s the next right thing to do, then doing just that.​

Who deserves some of this seasoning? “My adult child navigating significant life decisions: career, relationships, faith, would greatly benefit from this flavor. Offering wisdom involves providing guidance without imposing pressure, exemplifying thoughtful responses, and demonstrating a life rooted in spiritual disciplines and spiritual principles. This approach includes me asking rather than assuming, guiding instead of controlling, and trusting in their journey. Sharing wisdom in this manner will create a positive legacy, as I reassure him that he’s loved, supported and encouraged to let wisdom be his guide.”

So thanks again for looking at these 31 Flavors of Wisdom and hopefully, participating in the 31 Day Wisdom Challenge!  

Thanks for reading this excerpt from Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life. As time permits, please visit the other blogs written by Dr. Ken McGill: Daily Bread for Life and “3–2- 5–4–24” for additional information that could be helpful.