Flavor #7: Character (Charakter; Leb; Tebunah)

(Complete list and links to the 31 Flavors of Wisdom)

Meaning, Essence and Significance: Character embodies the essence of who we are, especially when unobserved. In the New Testament, the Greek word Charakter signifies an exact imprint or precise reproduction, illustrating how your character reflects your inner values. Leb refers to the heart, the immaterial core of our thoughts, desires, and moral compass, reflected in the term “what is written on our heart.”  The Hebrew term Tebunah denotes discernment and insight, which are key processes to understand and empathize with the heart of another. Tebunah, when used in reference to the act of employing wisdom, demonstrates we are to deliver wisdom, to the object of wisdom (others) as we personify wisdom (by our character). Collectively, these terms highlight that character is the outward manifestation of our deep inner convictions, sculpted by the consistent practice of skilled behavior we demonstrate in our effort to reflect the character of our God (Hebrews 1:3).

Practical Appearance and Nutritional Value: Character is behavior that’s evident in actions such as honoring commitments, speaking truthfully, and demonstrating reliability, even when faced with challenges. It resonates in apologies when wrong and in forgiveness when wronged. Character is the quiet strength that develops trust and dependability, where your actions line up with your professed beliefs. Like a signature ingredient in a cherished recipe, your character leaves a lasting, and typically positive impression on those you encounter.​

Who deserves some of this seasoning?  “My children merit a consistent serving of this flavor. Beyond good behavior, they should witness integrity in my action(s). This involves aligning my words with deeds, making decisions rooted in conviction, and demonstrating growth through acknowledging and correcting mistakes. It manifests as humility in correction, gentleness in guidance, and reliability in fulfilling promises. Through this, they learn that character is not about flawlessness but about the continual pursuit of goodness and respectability, with my heart guiding the way.​”

Thanks again for looking at these 31 Flavors of Wisdom and hopefully, participating in the 31 Day Wisdom Challenge, and for reading this excerpt from Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life. As time permits, please visit the other blogs written by Dr. Ken McGill: Daily Bread for Life and “3–2- 5–4–24” for additional information that could be helpful.