Flavor #21:  Compassion (Splanchnizomai; Splanchnon)

(Complete list and links to the 31 Flavors of Wisdom)

Meaning, essence, and significance: Compassion is a visceral, emotional and behavioral response that compels you to act to alleviate the suffering experience of another. The Greek term Splanchnizomai is derived from Splanchnon, which is the medical term for the internal organs in your viscera, or trunk of your body.  In the New Testament, this term frequently describes Jesus’ reactions to human suffering, illustrating that true compassion is composed of thoughtful, deliberate and considerate actions that facilitate healing in the heart (and soul, mind, and spirit) of “your neighbor,” especially when you consider the Greeks thought the heart was the seat of all emotions. Like Empathy (#6), Compassion is the concrete manifestation of tenderness, kindness and thoughtfulness, and reflects you Understand (#20) what the correct behavioral response to the person is, or situation you’re involved with or are observing. 

Practical Appearance and Nutritional Value: In practice, compassion is demonstrated through attentiveness, active listening, and knowledgeable inquiry, resulting in a creative response marked by Love (#2).  It involves recognizing another’s pain and responding with empathy and support, embodying the essence of loving your neighbor. The impact of compassion is profound, as it fosters emotional healing, strengthens relationships and leaves the unmistakable and lasting impression with your neighbor that they have been the object and recipient of caring behavior that is therapeutic!

Who deserves some of this seasoning?  “My spouse!  Extending compassion to my spouse means being fully present during their times of distress, offering understanding without judgment, and providing comfort through both words and actions. This approach nurtures trust and deepens our emotional bond, reflecting the compassionate nature exemplified by Jesus. Embracing and practicing compassion enriches our relationship and contributes to a more empathetic and caring society, aligning with the biblical call to ‘be kind and compassionate to one another’” – Ephesians 4:32

So thanks again for looking at these 31 Flavors of Wisdom and hopefully, participating in the 31 Day Wisdom Challenge, and for reading this excerpt from Cultivating Love: Wisdom for Life. As time permits, please visit the other blogs written by Dr. Ken McGill: Daily Bread for Life and “3–2- 5–4–24” for additional information that could be helpful.